Top 5 Signs She Is Cheating On You

The fragrance of another guy’s cologne. Shady texting pattern. Repeated late nights at workplace. You may think you can recognize the tell-tale signs your partner's cheating — but the experts say it’s not as simple as you think.

Whilst it’s much easier to cheat nowadays, it’s also very much easy to get caught. Here are some of the top 5 behaviors you’ll want to take note of when it comes to infidelity.

1. They've Found a New Texting Partner

At a point, you used to be the reason behind your partner being attached to their phone, keenly DMing funny memes and texting back and forth. But if you find out that your partner seems to be on their phone a lot lately, grinning at their screen whilst maintaining discretion, that could somewhat signal that there’s somebody new in their life that is commanding their attention.

Sure, your partner could just be texting a family member or even a close friend, but if they seem a little extra giddy about these exchanges that are taking up so much of their time, that might be a red flag.

2. They're Less Reachable Than They Were

It’s one thing if your partner has always been a little hard to get a hold of during the workday, but if your usual lunchtime chats start going into voicemail, that’s certainly a change worth paying attention to.

Experts says this is especially more alarming if your partner refuses to be in contact with you at certain times of the day or night, and doesn’t seem to have a valid reason for it. Trombetti suggests bringing it up if you observe you can’t get a hold of them. If they can’t give you a reason why or keep using fishy excuses about leaving their charger at home or having their phone on silent, there’s a possibility that they’re trying to hide something from you.

3. They're Putting Extra Effort Than Usual Into Their Appearance

If your partner all of a sudden started working out, or wearing more makeup, and/or dressing sexier than earlier, Safran says you should take note of it maybe.

Obviously, deciding to exercise or wear various clothes is in no way a guarantee that your partner is cheating on you. Although, if they’re suddenly putting way more effort into their appearance, and it seems to have nothing to do with when you spend time together or maybe go on dates, you may ask yourself if they’re trying to look good for somebody else.

4. They've Developed a New Hobby That They Used to Hate

Remember when you suddenly took an interest in whatever your new love interest cared about? According to Trombetti, if it seems like they've randomly started taking a new developed interest in something, that may be a red flag that there’s someone new in your partner's life.

For example, if they just started watching football out of nowhere, began listening to a new genre of music, or signed up for cooking classes when they couldn’t have cared less about those things previously, you may ask yourself why that is. Yes, your partner may just be exploring few different passions, or there may be someone else who’s intimidating their new tastes.

5. They Keep Picking Fights With You for Invalid Reason

Especially, if your partner's in the honeymoon phase of catching feelings for or hooking up with somebody new, that’s going to be quite tough to compete with.

Experts explained that it could be because you are being compared to the person they are cheating with. He said that it might of course coming up on the short end of the stick since they have stars in their eyes for the other person — who still seems perfect to them.