The Impact of Heartbreak on Men

Oberoi discussed how men end up with poor strategies for coping after a break-up. Some people continue to blame their former partners, turn to friends to pour bitterness into their ears, or afford to cover up their feelings with easy girlfriends/boyfriends. “Too many men suffer from a broken heart but get accustomed to an unhealthy way of responding to their emotions,” he said. He told those whose type of lady they do not ever want to get married to again, those who turned down lady‘s proposals and who equally turned down their very proposals and those who only engage in affairs because they cannot handle seriousness.

But to Vivek, such responses he found to be distractions that tend to push people in society further from their true selves.

The Journey to Healing

He admits that it took several months, almost five years, to get over the emotional phase of break up. He was put into a bad thinking cycle after a divorce, wondering whether he would be able to love again. I had forgotten who I belonged to: a man who was deeply in love. He said: “I was punishing myself.”

 

The shift began even more when he married Priyanka Alva Oberoi. She brought him back to his real self. This self-analysis and recovery process are the best lessons about self-acceptance and development after a breakup.

Vivek’s Advice to Men

In his journey, Oberoi also shared his message for everyone who is suffering from heartbreak. It opposed disparaging and frivolous things and exhorted men rather than contemplating and thinking about themselves. They advised him that he should look at himself for a change. And not to allow a rejection made by someone to bring you back to square one, away from your true self, he noted.

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He also emphasized the need to especially set boundaries when in a relationship and know that one is worth something. “Never pour yourself into a man or a woman unless you are very certain they can handle that,” he cautioned.

Moving Forward with Strength

This paper demonstrates how self-erasure and perseverance are some of the key life skills through the honesty of Vivek. Instead of brooding over the loss, he undertook the noble task of healing himself and ensuring he learned from his past mistakes. His journey shows that if people pursue love with carefully chosen patience and with a confident understanding of themselves, they can find it in the other person.